As I look at the women in the headlines of the sporting world, I am amazed at the athleticism, talent, and complete joy that I see on the field and the court. It makes me proud to be the father of four young women when I see them being able to have role models in business, politics, and sports. And, many times I enjoy learning from the women more so than from the men.
Many of my male friends agree that they enjoy watching college women’s games more than the NBA. Also, the Women’s National Soccer League is growing daily in membership. With each new achievement, I see more and more women making an impact not only in athletics but also in leadership.
About two years ago, I read the book “She Thinks Like A Boss,” written by Jemma Roedel. I came across the book as I was searching for leadership books to prepare for the Women’s Sports and Leadership Summit of 2023. As it turns out, only about 5% of leadership training is geared towards women; rather a large majority of leadership education appears to be prepared for men. This book written by Ms. Roedel, opened my eyes to the many challenges that women face daily. For these same women to be breaking barriers while basically teaching themselves to become leaders is beyond comprehension, and very inspiring.
Although I have since read a few more books on leadership written by women, I find myself still learning every day about improvements to work culture and a sense of inclusion from female leaders. When I was talking with my wife about some of the things I was learning from reading books and watching interviews, she often commented, “Oh, most of us women do that already, that’s not new …” But, it seems new to me. Empathy, inclusion, and attention to detail are not skills that I developed or even understood growing up as a cisgender boy.
Maybe, my mind is opening up to new ideas because I was too narrow-minded as a child. But, I like to think it is because I am seeing great value in showcasing women as role models in positions and situations that have traditionally been men. I have even begun to read books and watch lectures by gay, lesbian, and transgender members of our society. One particular show called “Philosophy Tube” is amazing. The person who produces the show is a transgender woman. And, each time I hear her perspective on a topic, I feel myself becoming smarter, more empathetic, and more inclusive.
I say all of this to celebrate the joys of womanhood, and say thank you to all of the women in my life who have overcome significant challenges in order to help people like me to become better members of society. I want to see more gay and lesbian books on the shelves. I want to see more female leaders in our businesses. I want to see more transgender topics discussed. Because, if women can overcome so many challenges for the betterment of our world, I am certain that greater inclusion of people who see the world differently will make for a strong union of our Nation.
